Thursday, January 6, 2022

The Elusive "Why?"

We have had an excellent plumber coming in and out of our house for about the last month. First, we had water main issues; and then, right as everyone was heading back to work and school our water heater went out. He is a big talker, nearing retirement, so he has a lot of stories to tell. Thankfully, he is pleasant and congenial, so I enjoy conversing with him.

Today he told me a story about finding a $35 fix for a woman who kept having her basement flood. She had a few estimates for thousands of dollars for people to come in and dig around her foundation to waterproof it. He said that one of his favorite parts of the job is solving problems like that. He said that he could have spent his career at one business or establishment, but that he likes going out and meeting different people and helping them. He said that anyone seeking a plumber is probably not having the best day, so he does his best to go into every job with a smile on his face.

As he spoke, I was impressed. This is a person who has a firm grasp on his "why".

I wish I could think straight, but every time I get any kind of creative thought the kids have their own creative thoughts to share.

Monday, January 3, 2022

Welcome to the New Normal

I didn't sleep well last night.

I was incredibly nervous about the fact that my son was going back to school today, while I was not. I also received a text message about the last piece of my employment. I had intended on addressing that piece today, but for the second time, my bumbling (ex)boss decided to send me a message on a Sunday. I then proceeded to watch the movie "The Unforgivable", which triggered my mommy anxiety even further. I was surprised that a tight cuddle squeeze from my husband helped somewhat.

Today I am a little tired, but okay. A variety of mishaps have happened, including the washing machine going on the fritz and the hot water heater springing a leak, but that same super supportive husband took care of my boss business and investigated the hot water heater over his lunch break. I am so grateful for him right now. I can finally breathe a small sigh of relief that all obligations to my former employer have ended. Things with the babies are manageable. This is our new normal.